Don't stop ;

Oh hey blog! Feel like blogging today so here I am :))

Semester break is coming to an end! One more Sunday and sem 5 is starting the day after. How time has passed so quickly! My holidays was alright, spent mostly with family although I secretly wish that I can spend equal time with my college and high school friends too :)

Recently, I have gotten feedbacks, a lot of them. Good, bad, etc. Some even made me rather confused, to be honest.

However I have read a very wise quote from someone whom I respect,

"Your examination results is not the main determinant of your success and future endeavors. Yet your attitude & behaviours in life is the key of your success in the future."

It's so true, isn't it?
I have planted a goal before I came to uni. A not so ambitious but achieveable goal.
But when I faced failure (in semester two) and somehow develop some love in what I am studying now, I asked myself, "Why do you always want to set an achieveable goal?"

I question further, "Why don't aim high then achieve higher?"
That caused me to change what I have set in the first place.
When I read the quote again, I agree so so much, but then when I think again, the (quite) possible/impossible aim that I have newly set is not really very much about the results, it's because I want to prove to myself that hard work, determination, never give up spirit (and of course a good set of attitudes) does bring many good outcomes if I start early and it certainly will benefit my coming future. Besides, my A-level achievement was a total disappointment, I am certain that I do not want to let the history to repeat again.

So I told myself with a determined heart, "At least for once, make yourself proud. Along the journey, enjoy every moment to the fullest."


Yet, thank you again for the encouragement. I am truly, very grateful!

:)


xx

"Everyone has a story.
You might think it's not worth telling, but then again, it's a story no one has ever heard. What you do, what you say, how you carry the plot, just might leave a mark on someone."

-Jodi Picoult and Samantha Van Leer.


True, everyone has a story. However, not everyone has the same points of views about the story. For example, from my perspective, I'd think this, this and this. From the second point of view, you/you all might think that, that and that and from the third point of view, he/she/they might think of those, those, this and that.

So for YOU to be at MY perspective, it's not easy. Because YOU might have your personal values and beliefs which is different from mine. For instances, maybe YOU think it is right to spend more time with family rather than friends. On the other hand, I might think that it is right to spend equal time with family and friends because they are both equally important to me. Whereas THEY/some might think that friends are the most important of all, if there is no friends they wouldn't have become who they are now, other than family of course.
The different in opinions go on and on, just for one story. 

If you ask, how does mutual understanding meet then?
I'd say there is a bridge in between all these thoughts and point of views.
Those are.. Listen. Respect. Learn. and Appreciate.

LISTEN (sit/calm down and listen.) what people has got to say about it.
RESPECT that everybody has different views/stories and also different ways to express them.
LEARN if that is what makes you realize that, "Ohh, this is something new to me." "Oh, how come that never came across my mind before?" "Ohh, now I get it."
APPRECIATE (whether you have/have not learnt something new, appreciate.) because it takes courage to express how and what you wanna tell to people. It takes guts to deliver your message to people, to let them know what you think.

It still takes time to reach the understanding process but at one point in life, you will.
Because now, (for example) YOU will never understand how I feel until you go through the experiences that I went through. Similarly, I will never comprehend how you take a certain matter so lightly unless I am at your shoe.


Y'know sometimes, during the growing process.. I will come to a point where I understand a certain process, of why it happened and why the person made that decision. I'll be like, "Ahh, now I know why!" or "Ahh, now I understand!"
It feels good when you have reached the understanding stage.
But in certain situation, you will (still) can't figure out why and you're totally clueless of what you can do since what you're supposed to do has already been done.

For example in giving health education, no matter how many times you have remind your patients about the do(s) and don't(s) list, no matter how many times they verbalized understanding, if they are not compliant to what you say, you seriously have no control for that. You have already done your best to include all the information that they need.

Yep, there is definitely a lot of frustration, I know. But sometimes, it's just that. It's up to them to follow or not (although you have done your responsibility and you secretly wish they will do it and on the recovery track.)


Yet again, life and people are not perfect. That, pk you must accept and understand it thoroughly well.

One who loves life deeply and lives it to the extreme ;

Photo courtesy : Link 

It's never too young or too old to live with this quote although according to the Western calendar, I am turning a year older more awesome tomorrow :)

With love,
PK

Picture Talking #1 ;

Picture sources : Tumblr

Beyourself;

You're likeable, I am not

You're loveable, I am not.

You are pretty with cute face, I do not.

All I can do is be ME, whoever that is :)

L-I-F-E

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life's just so imperfect, it always is.
when someone says life is soo good, because it is perfect! nahh, that's a lie
when someone says life is bad ,because it sucks alot [that's normal] and that is usually what people will say.
same goes as human , no one is perfect,
nobody in this whole tiny world will born to be rich forever, the best looking, the best of whatever.
thus, we should appreciate evrything that we own now, don't complain, don't hate,
life's like that!
life can be bitter, life can be sweet, life's ups and downs!
lifeee, oh define yourself,
because the meaning of life is different from everyone's eyes,

there's a sentence where there is

PS: there's someone who actually hate me! weets, thanks this shows that im imperfect. ILY! :)

proverbs.

The proverbs below are sort-of-intresting. I came across them in a book. So check it out =)

Anytime means no time

Eat to live but do not live to eat

Experience is the best teacher

Variety is the spice of life

When you fail to plan, you plan to fail

Everyone wants to go heaven but no one wants to die

Failure teaches success

Laugh and grow fat

Laughter is the shortest distance between two people

Nature,time and patience are 3 great PHYSICIANS

Never say never

Success is a JOURNEY, not a DESTINATION

The more you know, the more you know you don’t know

What’s done can’t be undone

which one u think fascinate u most? personally, i like "laugh and grow fat" lol.
i laugh and laugh and laugh like nobody's business.
Hell yeah, where's my fat?
HAHA.
so, do enjoy